After 20+ years of service, the moment has finally arrived — your spouse is retiring. For every military family, this moment marks a major shift. Everything you’ve known, lived, and breathed for decades will soon be exchanged for a DD214 and a “new normal.”
Your lifestyle and family’s financial landscape will shift, but where do you start? How do you smoothly transition from a life of service to the civilian world? Here are some considerations from the military financial professionals at AAFMAA Wealth Management & Trust LLC (AWM&T).
As your family transitions out of military service, it’s natural to wonder what level of civilian income you’ll need to maintain the lifestyle your family enjoyed while serving. While military retirement comes with valuable benefits, many of the allowances you relied on during active duty no longer apply. For example, a greater share of civilian income is taxable because Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) and Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS) are no longer part of your compensation.
Beyond simply replacing income, it’s important to define your family’s financial goals and future expenses. These may include buying a home, purchasing vehicles, paying for college, funding retirement travel, supporting charitable causes, or even establishing a family trust. Start by outlining these priorities to gain a clearer picture of the total income required to sustain your plans in retirement.
The chart below offers a helpful comparison between military and civilian pay, but the best next step is to work with a financial planner experienced in military retirement planning to build a strategy tailored to your family’s unique goals and needs.
Source: AAFMAA Wealth Management & Trust LLC
You and your spouse will need to decide about the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) before separation from the military. The SBP provides financial support to military spouses and/or children when a military member dies while on duty or after retirement. Eligible beneficiaries under the SBP are typically spouses or children (referred to as annuitants), who receive a monthly annuity payment upon the retiree’s passing. The SBP pays beneficiaries up to 55% of the servicemember’s retirement pay for as long as the surviving spouse lives, or until the qualified dependent child reaches a certain age.
The SBP is akin to a life insurance policy with no cap, but it is not automatically granted upon military retirement. Retirees have the ability to opt out of this benefit, but require the consent of their spouse to do so.
How the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) Impacts Your Finances
Learn more on the Department of Defense (DoD) website.
Your spouse’s TSP can be left intact, rolled over into an IRA, or consolidated with other accounts. Each option carries implications for fees, investment flexibility, and required minimum distributions (RMDs). Rolling over may require swift action to remain tax-advantaged. Here are some tips to make the most of your military benefits in retirement.
If your spouse made contributions while serving in a combat zone under the Combat Zone Tax Exclusion (CZTE), those contributions went into the TSP on a non-taxable basis. However, any earnings (growth) on those contributions are taxable when withdrawn. For this reason, it may be beneficial to roll over CZTE contributions into a Roth IRA, where future growth can occur tax-free. Evaluate this option alongside other rollover strategies to help maximize the long-term value of your military retirement benefits.
One of the biggest lifestyle changes after military service is the freedom to decide where you and your family will call home. After years of relocating based on duty stations, retirement allows you to settle in the location that best fits your long-term goals. As you consider your “forever home,” keep these factors in mind:
Military service comes with unique benefits that help offset the sacrifices your family makes. When retirement arrives, many of these benefits will end or change, and it’s important to prepare for the financial impact.
Expect adjustments in areas such as:
By planning for these new expenses, you can help smooth the transition and ensure your family remains financially secure.
Retirement from the military opens the door to new opportunities — whether that means pursuing a second career, going back to school, starting your own business, or something else entirely. To make the most of this next chapter, it’s essential to have a long-term financial strategy. As you plan the retirement of your dreams, ask yourself:
Working with a financial professional who understands military benefits can help you avoid costly mistakes and take full advantage of the benefits your family deserves.
At AAFMAA Wealth Management & Trust LLC (AWM&T), we’ve helped countless active-duty servicemembers, Veterans, and military spouses navigate military retirement and transition. With decades of experience serving the military community, we understand how military benefits, retirement pay, and complex regulations impact your financial future.
We provide solutions exclusively to those who have served through financial planning, investment management, and trust services. Let us help you create clarity and stability during this transitional time. Call 910-307-3500 or connect with a Relationship Manager today.
Founded in 2012, AAFMAA Wealth Management & Trust LLC (AWM&T) was created to meet the distinct financial needs of military families. We proudly deliver experienced, trustworthy financial planning, investment management, and trust administration services — all designed to promote lasting security and independence.
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